After much thought, overthinking and discussion, we made E’s biggest wish (well, at least for this month anyway) come true this week — we started dance lessons.
Thank you so much to everyone who weighed in on To Dance or Not To Dance? post. Your input, experiences and advice was really helpful and very much appreciated.
After asking around, I found a place that is near our neighborhood, has a convenient schedule for us and seems to have the right philosophy for E’s age group. A friend of mine, who is one of the most reasonable, down-to-Earth and no-nonesense moms I’ve ever known, has been sending her 4-year-old daughter there for a year and I trust her judgment.
Without much warning, we were off to try our first dance class. E. could barely contain her excitement the whole drive there.
Since she didn’t put both hands up, I think we’re safe from Macaulay Caulkin suing us for stealing his trademark look.
The entire drive there, she peppered me with questions: What is the teacher’s name? What will her new friends’ names be? How many dances will she do? Will Angelina Ballerina be there?
We got there early so I could fill out some paperwork. I thought it would be good for her to watch the older girls in the class ahead of her for a bit. She was mesmerized.
It actually was torture for her. All she wanted to do was get in there and dance.
Since we only found out she’d be going to class that afternoon (while I was at work), I didn’t have time to get her proper ballerina gear. But the teacher told me she could wear whatever she wants, even if it’s dress-up clothes. My parents got her this for Christmas and it’s her favorite outfit ever. I was a little nervous it’d be too much, but I was excited to see that in her class, most of the girls had something similar on.
And the tights? Well, it was just dumb luck that I had a pair that still fit her from last winter’s Christmas outfit. We didn’t have shoes yet, but she didn’t need them.
It was finally time to head in. Sadly, I wasn’t allowed in! At least I could spy through the windows, hence my scary, stalker paparazzi-style pictures below.
He immediately started with roll call. And if those kids didn’t say “here!” they did not move on until she or he did. He’s a stickler for rules. I like him already!
Then, it was stretching and warm-up time. Look who was trying to be teacher’s pet already.
Honestly, from the second she stepped in there, she was in heaven. She never stopped smiling and ate up everything he said, showed them and told them to do.
I know she’s my daughter, but I think this girl was born to dance.
After about 40 minutes, they switched to tap. Luckily, her teacher had a pair of tap shoes that could borrow. She was just in amazement that all that sound was coming from her feet. So cool.
Finally, the class ends with some gymnastics. This week, the teacher brought out some large exercise balls. Remember how I told you he’s strict? As he’s passing out these enormous, fun balls, he told the kids that these were not toys to be played with. We thought, there’s no way a group of 2- and 3-year-olds listens to that. But amazingly, they did! He showed them how to roll their backs on them against the wall, and then they laid flat on their backs and held the balls in the air between their legs. This is totally how Russians make tough kids, right? I’m on board!
E. rocked it all, and somehow, loved it even more at the end of class than she did at the beginning.
So, even though DadJovi is still very skeptical about the whole thing, we’re in it for now. Someone may have called my mother and said his heart was made of stone because he wasn’t convinced it’s worth the money … even after seeing her twirling across the floor in her tutu. And my mom may have put a check in the mail today to ensure her only granddaughter still gets to go to lessons. But I can neither confirm nor deny that.
The funniest/saddest part of the whole evening came after we left class. She rode home with DadJovi since he’d met us there from work and says to him, “I want to go to ballet school every day.” He told her that she’d still go to her regular school the next day.
E: “No, no more new school (yes, one year later, she still calls her school ‘new school’). I go to ballet school now.”
He explained to her that she’d still go to her regular school during the day and once a week, she’d go to ballet school, too. Cue the waterworks. This child, who adores her teacher, her friends and her school, was willing to cut them out of her lives without a second glance back.
She’s like the black swan already.
Note to self: never show her this movie/TV show:
If she finds out such a school exists, we may never see her again.
We even got free shoes at her school! There’s a basket of tap and ballet shoes that older kids have outgrown. I suppose that’s a little gross but I’m cheap practical. One of the moms there told to expect to pay about $40 to $50 for the ballet shoes and tap shoes (together, not each). Since E’s feet are always growing, I have no qualms about her wearing hand-me-down shoes.
Besides, we have recital costumes to start saving for (shhh! don’t tell DadJovi!).
Now that I’m raising a prima donna, what else do I need to know about the world of dance? I’m a stranger in a strangeland here.
Lynna says
I actually got tears in my eyes at the photo of her looking in the door at the big girls…get ready to learn to make a chignon…oh, and Payless sells ballet and tap shoes AND has regular BOGOs…
MomJovi says
I’ve already told Katy I need hair lessons — I don’t even know how to French braid! Luckily, I think we have some time. That tiny ponytail was a miracle.
I heard about shoes at Payless too so when we have to buy our first pair, that’s the first place I’m looking! Now I just need to find some leotards and tights …
ali says
Zulily runs sales with leotards fairly often and I think they even have one now… they’re still pricey though! Not looking forward to the day when Julia may need them.
Katherina @ Zephyr Runs says
How sweet!! She looks utterly thrilled at life just to dance <3
MomJovi says
Thrilled doesn’t even begin to describe. She keeps asking me (at least once an hour) how many days it is until her next lesson. I hope the thrill lasts!
Diane @ DixieJulep says
Aww, so cute! That’s so great that she had such a good first class.
And I had to LOL at the Fame reference. I remember watching that show when I was probably about E’s age, and I wanted to go to a school like that sooooo badly. Didn’t really get over that fantasy until college, LOL!
MomJovi says
Then I must remove all references from Fame from the world around her. I’m going to keep her home as long as I can. Do you think I can homeschool college?
Thanks for the comment!
Theresa @ActiveEggplant says
Oh-Em-Gee! It’s like she was about to burst at the seams with excitement!! Totally cute…and now I wish I was her age again just to get that much excitement about something new!
MomJovi says
You — and your tweet — are hilarious! And I’ve said before that one of the unexpected joys of having a child that I never anticipated is that thrill of discovering things for the first time. I’ll never forget her joy the first time she saw a real monkey in a zoo or dipped her toes in the ocean. It is like discovering whole new worlds!
Thanks!
Meghann says
Recitals are the best part! I’m glad E. enjoyed her first dance experience. The fact that she didn’t throw a tantrum over how itchy the tights are (I still have nightmares about having to wear tights again *shudders*) and that she wants to go back is a good sign. If only my mother had been as lucky with me. 😉
PLUS, E. looks ADORABLE in her outfit! I just want to give her a big hug! 🙂
Caroline Calcote says
My sister and I did ballet growing up, but that seems like a million years ago. I know nothing about the world of dance, except that all the older ballerinas I knew smoked cigarettes like chimneys and you could see every bone in their body. But I’m sure E. will never go there 🙂 She is beyond adorable and her excitement is palpable through the photos and your writing. With two boys, there are no dance classes in our life. 🙁 Not that boys couldn’t dance (don’t want to get all genderficatory on you…did I just make up that word?) but they have no interest. Yay Grandma for helping to create such happiness for Edwina!
MelissaMangs says
Those pictures are adorable! Regardless if she sticks with this or not, you guys are giving her a new experience and every kid needs lots of those. I mean if DadJovi wants her to get into Duke one day she needs to be well rounded. 🙂